Teenager's Disappointments

Nowadays, it's easy to waken the feelings of teenagers. Some of them are weak and easy to attract to those things that are very attracted especially in physical appearance of their opposite sex. Happiness or sadness are the effects of the feelings felt from the opposite sex. The words "First Love", "Love is Blind" and "Love at First Sight" became a term of them but they don't have more understanding about these, based from them, what is important is the feelings.


The teenagers should know that they are very young and there heart is also young to these things. we can't denied that "True Love" is not always a "First Love". The "Love is Blind" also is the fact that only an obsession and also with the "First Love at First Sight". But then, if they succeed to some kind of this love, most of them encountered disappointments so that they experienced a big loneliness and sadness.

Struggles and Troubles over Teenagers

The struggles faced by the teenagers came from different reasons. Those are the physical changes in their body, the responsibility in the family, in the class, or community. The emotional changes caused of really wanted freedom and impulse of feelings. When it comes to the financial matters that can cause you happiness is one source of confusion of the teenagers. The understanding of friends, the open communication and spiritual guidance can help to lessen and to solve different struggles and problems of teenagers.

Common struggles of teenagers

Those biological and social changes

Competition regarding with attention and sometimes in opportunity.

Financial problems

Accepting to each other

Wants to have freedom or to be independent in different ways.

Changing of mood or attitude

There’s no ability to follow on the flow of time.

Lack of self confidence

There’s a temptation that surrounds on you like immorality, drugs, making crimes, vices (smoking, drinking, and gambling).

Dangerous things out of the house like violence murder, rape, theft and etc.